Why? Why do YOU do the things you don’t want to do? And how to stop that….
By admin on Nov 14, 2011 in Uncategorized | 0 Comments
Why do you do what you do and how can you stop yourself from doing things you don’t want to do and start doing things you want to do?
Okay so I’ll answer the good part of this question towards the end – first some ramblings.

Recently I was introduced to a system of psychiatry called IFS or Integrated Family Systems. The bridge between IFS and acupuncture is actually very similar. IFS practitioners try and first get you into a relaxed state. This is just like acupuncture. During the first part of the treatment, which is generally the longest we focus on tapping into the body’s deepest resources, awaking the core of it’s energy and deeply calm the nervous system so that you can recharge your battery. Have you had acupuncture before? Some patients report that it’s like being in a trance! Many say it’s more relaxing than a massage. Others comment things like, “What did you put those needles in?” We call it the acu-buzz or acustoned. It’s like having a few glasses of wine one patient told me the other day. Anyways……….I digress.
In the IFS after they have you relaxed they introduce new ideas for you to think about. For instance if you it’s very hot out and you are craving ice cream there are sometimes two little voices in your head. One says, “Yes! I need ice cream.” The other is the one that says, “I want ice cream, but I’ve been on this health kick and I know the ice cream will make me feel guilty, bloated and after my sugar high very tired.” So who do you listen to? This is just like acupuncture, there is a yin and a yang. Two thoughts, two sides of the coin ect.
IFS teaches that have to separate your SELF (as in the entire part of you that is you) into small little parts. You have to talk to and identify the part that wants ice cream from the part that doesn’t. When you begin to take a look deeper into this little self (yogis call this ahimsa) you may realize that although the ice cream is delicious you know you’re better off without it right now. OR it may be the case that you only eat ice cream very infrequently and it’s no big deal. Either way you have to look deep into the nature of the reality of the problem that you’re facing. This is also the reason why we use needles! In our society today it’s hard to find the time to relax deeply or even take a breath. Whether you receive treatments weekly or month to month acupuncture creates a specified time of your schedule and forces you to be still and calm. Yes forces! No you can’t run around with needles in you.
So back to our original question. How can you stop doing the things that you don’t want to do and start doing the things that you want to? First you must relax. You need some consistent time each day or at least weekly to properly organize your thoughts and calm your nervous system. Next you need to identify whether your desires are realistic. For instance I can’t lose 20 pounds in a week. Next develop a plan that is both challenging but VERY capable. You must build on success rather than small failures again and again. It also helps during this time to look more deeply into the true nature or your desire in the first place. Why do you want a new car? Why do you feel like you need a vacation? Are you avoiding anything? Are your expectations realistic? These questions can go on and on. In order to perceive clearly you must be in a clear state of mind. This is where acupuncture can help. So come in and be relaxed and ponder life for awhile. It’s actually very fun.













